bar or pump?

scenario: g dumps e's bucket of markers out
e: nose to nose in his face says, "Damn it Grant!"
recap: 10 minute time-out, lots of tears, reminding next time she will get to pick between bar or pump and finally a replay for dad when he got home. We tried to think of some other things to say to our brother when he ticks us off....I think we landed on "Oh, fiddlesticks!"...we'll see how that goes.